Why Staying Close Isn’t Always Connection: The family professional view from Lisa
You’ve probably heard the advice framed as a choice: either stay close to your struggling son and risk enabling him, or step away and practice “detaching with love…
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lisa & yeshaia
12 May 2026
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10 min to read
Two Sides of the Same Fire
Over the next three months, Antedote is hosting a written dialogue between two people who sit on different sides of the same fire. I’m writing as a treatment professional in mental health and…
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yeshaia blakeney
23 February 2026
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10 min to read
Individuation in an Age Without Villages
Something troubling is happening to young men today. Many remain tethered to their parents well into adulthood, not only financially but emotionally…
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Michael Martin
14 October 2025
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4 min to read
Failure to Launch, Part III: The Age of Uncertainty
Let’s start with a jarring truth: young adults—not teens—are currently the most psychologically distressed age group in America…
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Yeshaia Blakeney
21 July 2025
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7 min to read
Failure to Launch, Part II: The Inheritance of Avoidance
Let’s not sugarcoat it: Our young adults are stunted—arrested in their development—not because they lack potential, but because the people raising them often lack…
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Michael Martin
31 March 2025
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5 min to read
Failure To Launch Coaching at Antedote
Travis gets home late in his parents’ range rover puffing the roach of a blunt. He flicks it out the window where it sizzles on the street in a puddle of run off from the midnight sprinkler…